It’s just a little cold… I’ve just got a bit of a sniffle… Got the sneezes… It’s still ok to come isn’t it?! No actually – it bloody isn’t! You see for my Bear, and hundreds of his friends, ‘just a cold’ can mean so much more, so before you send your snotty child to […]

A week from now it will be Mothering Sunday in the UK.  Facebook is predictably going to be strewn with the usual status updates, photos and gushing of ‘ooooh look what I got’ ‘look what my little shits darlings (edited for the occasion because who can be cross with a chubby little fist clasping a […]

I was composing a blog post last night and I stopped mid way and deleted it – it was about how we were feeling let down and disappointed that Bear seems to be a second thought or something not special enough to make the effort for.  It’s been three months now, noone has been that […]